Grief is a sacred journey, a tender unraveling of the heart that demands reverence, patience, and deep spiritual support. For centuries, Lapis Lazuli—a stone of celestial wisdom and emotional clarity—has been revered as a companion for those navigating loss. Its royal blue hues, speckled with golden pyrite, evoke the vastness of the night sky, reminding us that even in darkness, there is light. In this ritual, we harmonize Lapis Lazuli’s ancient energy with the soft glow of candlelight to create a transformative space for healing. Whether you’re mourning a person, a relationship, or a chapter of life, this three-step practice invites you to honor your sorrow and reclaim your inner peace.
Known as the "Stone of Truth," Lapis Lazuli resonates with the throat chakra, encouraging honest expression of suppressed emotions. Its energy dissolves barriers to self-awareness, helping you confront grief without judgment. Metaphysically, it’s believed to activate the third eye, fostering spiritual insight and connection to universal wisdom. Emotionally, its calming vibration soothes anxiety, making it ideal for grounding during turbulent times. Hold it close during this ritual to invite clarity, release, and gentle renewal.
Step 1: Cleansing the Space & Setting Intentions
Begin by creating a sanctuary. Light a white candle (symbolizing purity and spirit) and place your Lapis Lazuli stone beside it. Sit comfortably, holding the stone over your heart. Close your eyes and breathe deeply, envisioning its blue light enveloping your body. Whisper aloud: "I call upon Lapis Lazuli to guide me through this sacred release."
Optional Enhancement: Pair the ritual with grounding stones like Onyx to stabilize your energy. The Onyx and Tiger Eye bracelet symbolizes strength amid fragility.
Step 2: The Letter of Release
Write a letter addressing your grief—be it to a loved one, a past self, or the universe itself. Place the Lapis Lazuli on the paper as you write, allowing its energy to infuse your words with honesty and compassion. Once finished, read the letter aloud to the candlelight, then safely burn it in a fireproof dish. As the smoke rises, visualize your pain transmuting into light.
Energy Tip: Boost this step’s resonance with blue Tiger Eye bracelets, which harmonize with Lapis Lazuli’s frequency to enhance courage.
Step 3: Inviting Renewal with Candle Meditation
Gaze softly at the candle’s flame, still holding your Lapis Lazuli. With each inhale, imagine drawing in healing blue light; with each exhale, release residual heaviness. After 5-10 minutes, place the stone over your third eye (between the brows) and affirm: "I am held. I am healing. I am whole."
Aftercare Suggestion: Wear a Strawberry Quartz bracelet post-ritual to nurture self-love, or a volcanic stone bracelet to stay anchored in the present.
Integrating the Ritual into Daily Life
Grief is not linear. On difficult days, carry Lapis Lazuli in your pocket or wear it as jewelry. Pair it with a natural Amethyst pendant for amplified spiritual protection and intuition. Revisit the candlelight ritual monthly, adjusting the steps as your healing evolves.
Closing Thoughts
Lapis Lazumi rituals are not about erasing pain but honoring its role in your growth. Like the stone’s golden flecks—imperfections turned divine—your grief holds beauty and wisdom. Trust the process. Let candlelight be your witness, and let Lapis Lazuli be your guide back to wholeness.
Note: Always cleanse your crystals before and after rituals. Methods include moonlight bathing, smudging, or placing them on a selenite plate.
